Everyone has an opinion these days, let’s face it. It has never been simpler to express those views thanks to the Internet. The funny part? The more unusual the viewpoint, the more headlines it attracts. What about this one? It’s making a lot of headlines.
Suppose you are a parent and a “expert” advises you to get your baby’s consent before changing their diaper. It sounds crazy, doesn’t it? Welcome to the most recent episode of “,” when a bizarre concept goes viral.
Introducing Deanne Carson, a self-described author, speaker, and relationship and sexuality educator. Before taking on diaper duty, she thinks parents should check in with their infants. You heard correctly. Ask the baby.
We understand now that consent is a controversial topic. However, requesting consent from a baby before changing their unclean diaper? This one is making even seasoned parents roll their eyes.
A parent’s least favorite chore is changing diapers. It’s dirty and frequently unappreciated, yet it’s vital to a baby’s wellbeing. And incorporating the custom of requesting consent? That would be like stoking a fire that is already on fire.
Carson’s 2018 ABC guidance highlights the importance of beginning consent instruction at a very young age. She feels that even infants should be included in this consent culture, even though older toddlers may understand the idea.
The worst part? Infants are unable to express their assent verbally. However, Carson contends that people can demonstrate their support through nonverbal cues like eye contact.
Although the goal of fostering a culture of consent is admirable, some would argue that its implementation is lacking. Carson explained how parents and toddlers could develop deeper communication by asking questions and waiting for the baby’s cues.
The responses? Priceless. The viability was immediately called into doubt by both reporters and viewers. If the infant “said” no, what would a parent do?
Consider the following scenario: “Sweetheart, may I change your diaper?” Baby gives a glare. Reaction? What comes next? Let them be in their mess? On Twitter, the responses were hilarious and incredulous.
She has either never wrestled a child while changing diapers or, worse, simply left hers in a filthy diaper until it was “ready to consent.” OMFG.
What occurs if the infant declines? Still, do it? Whoa, the true issue has emerged.
Interesting stuff to think about, isn’t it? Is changing a diaper, a simple task, suddenly complicated by a web of consent protocols? Consider this: will you keep Deanne Carson’s counsel in mind the next time you find yourself in a similar predicament? Or, like many parents, will you put the belly laughter on hold and just get on with your work?
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